If you have followed me on YouTube, or Instagram, you know that I have been creating horse related videos for the past 7 years. But recently, I decided to make a change and move away from creating equestrian content.
Some of my subscribers were very supportive while others were quick to let me know they would be unsubscribing from my channel. And it’s because of people like that why I decided to stop with my entire Budget Equestrian channel.
In the past 7 years, I have shared over 650 videos with ideas, tips, and DIY projects for people to do with their horses. Not something easy to do if you truly are a budget equestrian. Most of us love horses, and love getting tips and new ideas to help us to make the most of the time we have with our beloved horses.
You’re Doing It Wrong
But then there are those who make sure to point out everything I’m doing wrong. Or they feel the need to make sure I know how horrible my horses look. Thanks for that by the way. I have had people comment how cringe-worthy my content is, and how they have slumber parties to review my videos and make fun of me. And while the thoughtful and kind comments make me so happy to know I have helped someone with their horse, the hurtful ones are the ones I remember the most. It shouldn’t be that way, but it is.
Believe me, I know I am a complete dork and I march to the beat of my own drum. But having complete strangers feel the need to point out every flaw is exhausting. And I know I should not take it personally, but I do. And people have this uncanny ability to really touch a nerve – especially from the safety behind their computer screen. These keyboard warriors really jack things up for those of us who are trying to provide information, or content to those who are truly interested.
So I guess the trolls won. But life is way too short to only be focused on the negative. I have horses because I love them. I make videos because I love doing it. I put myself out there because I might actually have something to offer to someone that might help them. That is why I have done what I have done for the past 7 years.
And usually the monthly income that is generated from my channel has been enough for me to say F the haters. But for the past few months that hasn’t been the case. And focusing on the negativity has been easier, and pushing me down a darker path that I don’t really enjoy going down.
Changing Things Up
So instead of continuing to focus on the bad, and the ugly until I get to the point of 100% believing all of the crap people say, I decided to do away with my YouTube channel The Budget Equestrian and replace it with a more general DIY channel.
And I also decided that I will be posting videos that are focused around home DIY projects, Dollar Tree decorating and an occasional equestrian related video. Because I really do like sharing my DIY horse related content once in a while, especially when I come up with something really cool!
I will still be writing on my blog, but I will be censoring mean or hurtful comments. It’s my blog, and I get to decide what comments I let go live on MY platform. So if you have something mean to say, why don’t you look at yourself in the mirror and say your mean comments to yourself and see how you like it. Because they will not get an audience from me, or my followers.
15 replies to "Why I Stopped My YouTube Channel"
Hi Lisa, my heart goes out to you. I am so sorry you’ve been bullied by stupid internet trainers who think they know everything and have nothing better to do with their lives then sit behind their computer and bash someone whose just trying to have fun and post amazing horse videos. I have been trying to make YouTube videos myself and have been honestly scared of the hate that I know I’ll get. I’ve been watching your videos for many years and have always loved your content. Half those people are probably just kids who think they know everything. You’re amazing and your horses are so lucky to have such a wonderful home.
Lisa, the first video I watched was the one you made a saddle stand. I made one like it too. So sorry that you have people say crap to you. But there are always those kind in life I know. Anyway you have to do what’s best for you but know that I enjoyed your videos and have learned some new ways to do things. My brother lives in Loveland so maybe I’ll see ya sometime.
Hi Dana 🙂
Thank you so much for your kind words.
Hi Lisa,
I think your blog and channel is the greatest thing out there in terms of equestrian content. You are the only blog I follow. Your post are always so helpful and since I do not have a horse of my own (yet), I often come to your channel to prepare for when I finally do. Just want you to know you have at least one (HUGE) supporter. Good luck with this hard decision.
Thank you for your support Belle 🙂
I will continue to post an occasional horse related video, but all of the videos I have made aren’t going anywhere so you can still watch them 🙂 And my horses are a huge part of my life and I can’t completely stop lol I wish you the best, and so exciting to be planning on getting a horse of your own!
It saddens me to read this post. I loved watching your videos on your take of having a horse. Why do people have to be so negative!
I wish that people who were leaving comments on videos were subjected to the same standards as YouTube hold for creators – that would get rid of a lot of the negativity. And I am still going to be making some horse related videos, I just can’t help myself 🙂 I will just have to limit reading comments!
Hi Lisa, I have never commented before, but also wanted to add that I enjoy your blog. I don’t usually have time to watch YouTube videos, but it’s truly awful that people say hateful things to someone putting out cheerful and helpful content. I know it’s easier said than done, but try to ignore them and know that you take excellent care of 2 horses who are very lucky to have you!
Thank you so much Maria for taking the time to leave a comment 🙂 That was so thoughtful, and I really appreciate it!
I sincerely feel sorry for you, but your reasons are compelling. People are sometimes very cruel and negative.
Loved your equine posts and info. Some people, sadly, mostly women, have nothing better to than to bash others. Arent we glad we arent living their lives! They remind of the the women who complain and critisize, usually with out any knowledge on the the subject, that you find at most commercial barns…..As a fellow Coloradan, I sincerely hope you will post equine content sometimes! Many of us really appreciate your enthusiasm and info! Too many people have too much time on their hands during this pandemic and chose to be critical and insensitive!
Thank you so much Mary – you made my day 🙂 I will still be sharing some equestrian videos – a bunch are planned actually for November. I will just ignore the haters and the comments for them lol.
But thank you for your comment, it really means a lot to me 🙂
Hi Lisa I ran across your video on home made fly spray (ant least I think it was your you tube channel) and would like to know are you using pure essential oil. I read from one person not to use the pure stuff possibly burn the horse. What is the difference if I may ask.
I am making the fly spray with acv, skin so soft and pure essential oil lavender but I think your ingredients could be cheaper and once done with mine I will use your suggestions.
Please let me know is pure oils ok or should I use essential oils.
Thank you! For your time
Catherine Vaughn
Hello Lisa, I have loved seeing you on you tube, you have given me so many ideas , I’m saddened you feel you have to forego YouTube, people are so sad, it’s more a reflection on them, than you, I live in the England, so well done you for putting yourself on a very public platform, it’s easy to hide behind a key board, shame on them xxxxx
I never understood why some people can be so cruel. I love your content and in fact you keep me interested unlike most DIY channels!!!! I do have a video idea for Christmas, could you do something for kids as well? I have my little cousins coming up soon and I’d love to have ideas. Thank you for not giving up youtube completely and giving me ideas for my horses all these years!